This upgrades the `proxy/` crate as well as the forked libraries in
`libs/proxy/` to edition 2024.
Also reformats the imports of those forked libraries via:
```
cargo +nightly fmt -p proxy -p postgres-protocol2 -p postgres-types2 -p tokio-postgres2 -- -l --config imports_granularity=Module,group_imports=StdExternalCrate,reorder_imports=true
```
It can be read commit-by-commit: the first commit has no formatting
changes, only changes to accomodate the new edition.
Part of #10918
Now that we construct the TLS client config for cancellation as well as
connect, it feels appropriate to construct the same config once and
re-use it elsewhere. It might also help should #7500 require any extra
setup, so we can easily add it to all the appropriate call sites.
