## Problem
The `WithClientIp` AsyncRead/Write abstraction never filled me with much
joy. I would just rather read the protocol header once and then get the
remaining buf and reader.
## Summary of changes
* Replace `WithClientIp::wait_for_addr` with `read_proxy_protocol`.
* Replace `WithClientIp` with `ChainRW`.
* Optimise `ChainRW` to make the standard path more optimal.
## Problem
hyper1 offers control over the HTTP connection that hyper0_14 does not.
We're blocked on switching all services to hyper1 because of how we use
tonic, but no reason we can't switch proxy over.
## Summary of changes
1. hyper0.14 -> hyper1
1. self managed server
2. Remove the `WithConnectionGuard` wrapper from `protocol2`
2. Remove TLS listener as it's no longer necessary
3. include first session ID in connection startup logs
## Problem
hyper auto-cancels the request futures on connection close.
`sql_over_http::handle` is not 'drop cancel safe', so we need to do some
other work to make sure connections are queries in the right way.
## Summary of changes
1. tokio::spawn the request handler to resolve the initial cancel-safety
issue
2. share a cancellation token, and cancel it when the request `Service`
is dropped.
3. Add a new log span to be able to track the HTTP connection lifecycle.
## Problem
Now that we have tls-listener vendored, we can refactor and remove a lot
of bloated code and make the whole flow a bit simpler
## Summary of changes
1. Remove dead code
2. Move the error handling to inside the `TlsListener` accept() function
3. Extract the peer_addr from the PROXY protocol header and log it with
errors
