## Problem
Half of #4699.
TCP/WS have one implementation of `connect_to_compute`, HTTP has another
implementation of `connect_to_compute`.
Having both is annoying to deal with.
## Summary of changes
Creates a set of traits `ConnectMechanism` and `ShouldError` that allows
the `connect_to_compute` to be generic over raw TCP stream or
tokio_postgres based connections.
I'm not super happy with this. I think it would be nice to
remove tokio_postgres entirely but that will need a lot more thought to
be put into it.
I have also slightly refactored the caching to use fewer references.
Instead using ownership to ensure the state of retrying is encoded in
the type system.
## Problem
In the logs, I noticed we still weren't retrying in some cases. Seemed
to be timeouts but we explicitly wanted to handle those
## Summary of changes
Retry on io::ErrorKind::TimedOut errors.
Handle IO errors in tokio_postgres::Error.
## Problem
If we fail to wake up the compute node, a subsequent connect attempt
will definitely fail. However, kubernetes won't fail the connection
immediately, instead it hangs until we timeout (10s).
## Summary of changes
Refactor the loop to allow fast retries of compute_wake and to skip a
connect attempt.
## Problem
#4598 compute nodes are not accessible some time after wake up due to
kubernetes DNS not being fully propagated.
## Summary of changes
Update connect retry mechanism to support handling IO errors and
sleeping for 100ms
## Checklist before requesting a review
- [x] I have performed a self-review of my code.
- [ ] If it is a core feature, I have added thorough tests.
- [ ] Do we need to implement analytics? if so did you add the relevant
metrics to the dashboard?
- [ ] If this PR requires public announcement, mark it with
/release-notes label and add several sentences in this section.
Cache up to 20 connections per endpoint. Once all pooled connections
are used current implementation can open an extra connection, so the
maximum number of simultaneous connections is not enforced.
There are more things to do here, especially with background clean-up
of closed connections, and checks for transaction state. But current
implementation allows to check for smaller coonection latencies that
this cache should bring.
