## Problem
hyper auto-cancels the request futures on connection close.
`sql_over_http::handle` is not 'drop cancel safe', so we need to do some
other work to make sure connections are queries in the right way.
## Summary of changes
1. tokio::spawn the request handler to resolve the initial cancel-safety
issue
2. share a cancellation token, and cancel it when the request `Service`
is dropped.
3. Add a new log span to be able to track the HTTP connection lifecycle.
## Problem
Now that we have tls-listener vendored, we can refactor and remove a lot
of bloated code and make the whole flow a bit simpler
## Summary of changes
1. Remove dead code
2. Move the error handling to inside the `TlsListener` accept() function
3. Extract the peer_addr from the PROXY protocol header and log it with
errors
