## Problem
PGLB/Neonkeeper needs to separate the concerns of connecting to compute,
and authenticating to compute.
Additionally, the code within `connect_to_compute` is rather messy,
spending effort on recovering the authentication info after
wake_compute.
## Summary of changes
Split `ConnCfg` into `ConnectInfo` and `AuthInfo`. `wake_compute` only
returns `ConnectInfo` and `AuthInfo` is determined separately from the
`handshake`/`authenticate` process.
Additionally, `ConnectInfo::connect_raw` is in-charge or establishing
the TLS connection, and the `postgres_client::Config::connect_raw` is
configured to use `NoTls` which will force it to skip the TLS
negotiation. This should just work.
A smaller version of #12066 that is somewhat easier to review.
Now that I've been using https://crates.io/crates/top-type-sizes I've
found a lot more of the low hanging fruit that can be tweaks to reduce
the memory usage.
Some context for the optimisations:
Rust's stack allocation in futures is quite naive. Stack variables, even
if moved, often still end up taking space in the future. Rearranging the
order in which variables are defined, and properly scoping them can go a
long way.
`async fn` and `async move {}` have a consequence that they always
duplicate the "upvars" (aka captures). All captures are permanently
allocated in the future, even if moved. We can be mindful when writing
futures to only capture as little as possible.
TlsStream is massive. Needs boxing so it doesn't contribute to the above
issue.
## Measurements from `top-type-sizes`:
### Before
```
10328 {async block@proxy::proxy::task_main::{closure#0}::{closure#0}} align=8
6120 {async fn body of proxy::proxy::handle_client<proxy::protocol2::ChainRW<tokio::net::TcpStream>>()} align=8
```
### After
```
4040 {async block@proxy::proxy::task_main::{closure#0}::{closure#0}}
4704 {async fn body of proxy::proxy::handle_client<proxy::protocol2::ChainRW<tokio::net::TcpStream>>()} align=8
```
This upgrades the `proxy/` crate as well as the forked libraries in
`libs/proxy/` to edition 2024.
Also reformats the imports of those forked libraries via:
```
cargo +nightly fmt -p proxy -p postgres-protocol2 -p postgres-types2 -p tokio-postgres2 -- -l --config imports_granularity=Module,group_imports=StdExternalCrate,reorder_imports=true
```
It can be read commit-by-commit: the first commit has no formatting
changes, only changes to accomodate the new edition.
Part of #10918
Now that we construct the TLS client config for cancellation as well as
connect, it feels appropriate to construct the same config once and
re-use it elsewhere. It might also help should #7500 require any extra
setup, so we can easily add it to all the appropriate call sites.
