## Problem
With gRPC `GetPageRequest` batches, we'll have non-trivial
fragmentation/reassembly logic in several places of the stack
(concurrent reads, shard splits, LFC hits, etc). If we included the
block numbers with the pages in `GetPageResponse` we could have better
verification and observability that the final responses are correct.
Touches #11735.
Requires #12480.
## Summary of changes
Add a `Page` struct with`block_number` for `GetPageResponse`, along with
the `RelTag` for completeness, and verify them in the rich gRPC client.
## Problem
The communicator gRPC client must support changing the shard map on
splits.
Touches #11735.
Requires #12476.
## Summary of changes
* Wrap the shard set in a `ArcSwap` to allow swapping it out.
* Add a new `ShardSpec` parameter struct to pass validated shard info to
the client.
* Add `update_shards()` to change the shard set. In-flight requests are
allowed to complete using the old shards.
* Restructure `get_page` to use a stable view of the shard map, and
retry errors at the top (pre-split) level to pick up shard map changes.
* Also marks `tonic::Status::Internal` as non-retryable, so that we can
use it for client-side invariant checks without continually retrying
these.
## Problem
The rich gRPC Pageserver client needs to split GetPage batches that
straddle multiple shards.
Touches #11735.
Requires #12462.
## Summary of changes
Adds a `GetPageSplitter` which splits `GetPageRequest` that span
multiple shards, and then reassembles the responses. Dispatches
per-shard requests in parallel.
