pgbouncer 1.21.0 doesn't play nicely with DEALLOCATD/DISCARD ALL if
prepared statement support is enabled (max_prepared_statements > 0).
There's a patch[0] that improves this (it will be included in the next
release of pgbouncer).
This PR applies this patch on top of 1.21.0 release tarball.
For some reason, the tarball doesn't include `test/test_prepared.py`
(which is modified by the patch as well), so the patch can't be applied
clearly. I use `filterdiff` (from `patchutils` package) to apply
the required changes.
[0] a7b3c0a5f4
