(stacked on #9990 and #9995)
Partially fixes#1287 with a custom option field to enable the fixed
behaviour. This allows us to gradually roll out the fix without silently
changing the observed behaviour for our customers.
related to https://github.com/neondatabase/cloud/issues/15284
Keeping the `mock` postgres cplane adaptor using "stock" tokio-postgres
allows us to remove a lot of dead weight from our actual postgres
connection logic.
Fixes https://github.com/neondatabase/cloud/issues/20973.
This refactors `connect_raw` in order to return direct access to the
delayed notices.
I cannot find a way to test this with psycopg2 unfortunately, although
testing it with psql does return the expected results.
Our rust-postgres fork is getting messy. Mostly because proxy wants more
control over the raw protocol than tokio-postgres provides. As such,
it's diverging more and more. Storage and compute also make use of
rust-postgres, but in more normal usage, thus they don't need our crazy
changes.
Idea:
* proxy maintains their subset
* other teams use a minimal patch set against upstream rust-postgres
Reviewing this code will be difficult. To implement it, I
1. Copied tokio-postgres, postgres-protocol and postgres-types from
00940fcdb5
2. Updated their package names with the `2` suffix to make them compile
in the workspace.
3. Updated proxy to use those packages
4. Copied in the code from tokio-postgres-rustls 0.13 (with some patches
applied https://github.com/jbg/tokio-postgres-rustls/pull/32https://github.com/jbg/tokio-postgres-rustls/pull/33)
5. Removed as much dead code as I could find in the vendored libraries
6. Updated the tokio-postgres-rustls code to use our existing channel
binding implementation
