Because:
- it's nice to be up-to-date,
- we already had axum 0.7 in our dependency tree, so this avoids having
to compile two versions, and
- removes one of the remaining dpendencies to hyper version 0
Also bumps the 'tokio-tungstenite' dependency, to avoid having two
versions in the dependency tree.
Part 1 of 2, for moving the file cache onto disk.
Because VMs are created by the control plane (and that's where the
filesystem for the file cache is defined), we can't rely on any kind of
synchronization between releases, so the change needs to be
feature-gated (kind of), with the default remaining the same for now.
See also: neondatabase/cloud#6593
