Adds in a barrier for the duration of the `Tenant::shutdown`.
`pageserver_shutdown` will join this await, `detach`es and `ignore`s
will not.
Fixes#4429.
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Co-authored-by: Christian Schwarz <christian@neon.tech>
Startup continues to be slow, work towards to alleviate it.
Summary of changes:
- pretty the functional improvements from #4366 into
`utils::completion::{Completion, Barrier}`
- extend "initial load completion" usage up to tenant background tasks
- previously only global background tasks
- spawn_blocking the tenant load directory traversal
- demote some logging
- remove some unwraps
- propagate some spans to `spawn_blocking`
Runtime effects should be major speedup to loading, but after that, the
`BACKGROUND_RUNTIME` will be blocked for a long time (minutes). Possible
follow-ups:
- complete initial tenant sizes before allowing background tasks to
block the `BACKGROUND_RUNTIME`
