Problem
Currently, we base our time based layer rolling decision on the last
time we froze a layer. This means that if we roll a layer and then go
idle for longer than the checkpoint timeout the next layer will be
rolled after the first write. This is of course not desirable.
Summary of changes
Record the timepoint of the first write to an open layer and use that
for time based layer rolling decisions. Note that I had to keep
`Timeline::last_freeze_ts` for the sharded tenant disk consistent lsn
skip hack.
Fixes#7241