## Problem
gRPC client retries currently include pool acquisition under the
per-attempt timeout. If pool acquisition is slow (e.g. full pool), this
will cause spurious timeout warnings, and the caller will lose its place
in the pool queue.
Touches #11735.
## Summary of changes
Makes several improvements to retries and related logic:
* Don't include pool acquisition time under request timeouts.
* Move attempt timeouts out of `Retry` and into the closure.
* Make `Retry` configurable, move constants into main module.
* Don't backoff on the first retry, and reduce initial/max backoffs to
5ms and 5s respectively.
* Add `with_retries` and `with_timeout` helpers.
* Add slow logging for pool acquisition, and a `warn_slow` counterpart
to `log_slow`.
* Add debug logging for requests and responses at the client boundary.
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