## Problem
Long ago, in #5299 the tenant states for migration are added, but
respected only in a coarse-grained way: when hinted not to do deletions,
tenants will just avoid doing all GC or compaction.
Skipping compaction is not necessary for AttachedMulti, as we will soon
become the primary attached location, and it is not a waste of resources
to proceed with compaction. Instead, per the RFC
https://github.com/neondatabase/neon/pull/5029/files), deletions should
be queued up in this state, and executed later when we switch to
AttachedSingle.
Avoiding compaction in AttachedMulti can have an operational impact if a
tenant is under significant write load, as a long-running migration can
result in a large accumulation of delta layers with commensurate impact
on read latency.
Closes: https://github.com/neondatabase/neon/issues/5396
## Summary of changes
- Add a 'config' part to RemoteTimelineClient so that it can be aware of
the mode of the tenant it belongs to, and wire this through for
construction + updates
- Add a special buffer for delayed deletions, and when in AttachedMulti
route deletions here instead of into the main remote client queue. This
is drained when transitioning to AttachedSingle. If the tenant is
detached or our process dies before then, then these objects are leaked.
- As a quality of life improvement, also use the remote timeline
client's knowledge of the tenant state to avoid submitting remote
consistent LSN updates for validation when in AttachedStale (as we know
these will fail)
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