Going through the list of recent flaky tests, trying to fix those
related to graceful shutdown.
- test_forward_compatibility: flush and wait for uploads to avoid
graceful shutdown
- test_layer_bloating: in the end the endpoint and vanilla are still up
=> immediate shutdown
- test_lagging_sk: pageserver shutdown is not related to the test =>
immediate shutdown
- test_lsn_lease_size: pageserver flushing is not needed => immediate
shutdown
Additionally:
- remove `wait_for_upload` usage from workload fixture
Cc: #8708Fixes: #8710