Introduce a separate `postgres_ffi_types` crate which contains a few
types and functions that were used in the API. `postgres_ffi_types` is a
much small crate than `postgres_ffi`, and it doesn't depend on bindgen
or the Postgres C headers.
Move NeonWalRecord and Value types to wal_decoder crate. They are only
used in the pageserver-safekeeper "ingest" API. The rest of the ingest
API types are defined in wal_decoder, so move these there as well.