## Problem
In 89275f6c1e we fixed an issue, when we were dropping db in Postgres
even though cplane request failed. Yet, it introduced a new problem that
we now de-register db in cplane even if we didn't actually drop it in
Postgres.
## Summary of changes
Here we revert extension change, so we now again may leave db in invalid
state after failed drop. Instead, `compute_ctl` is now responsible for
cleaning up invalid databases during full configuration. Thus, there are
two ways of recovering from failed DROP DATABASE:
1. User can just repeat DROP DATABASE, same as in Vanilla Postgres.
2. If they didn't, then on next full configuration (dbs / roles changes
in the API; password reset; or data availability check) invalid db
will be cleaned up in the Postgres and re-created by `compute_ctl`. So
again it follows pretty much the same semantics as Vanilla Postgres --
you need to drop it again after failed drop.
That way, we have a recovery trajectory for both problems.
See this commit for info about `invalid` db state:
a4b4cc1d60
According to it:
> An invalid database cannot be connected to anymore, but can still be
dropped.
While on it, this commit also fixes another issue, when `compute_ctl`
was trying to connect to databases with `ALLOW CONNECTIONS false`. Now
it will just skip them.
Fixes#5435