## Problem
Two recently observed log errors indicate safekeeper tasks for a
timeline running after that timeline's deletion has started.
- https://github.com/neondatabase/neon/issues/8972
- https://github.com/neondatabase/neon/issues/8974
These code paths do not have a mechanism that coordinates task shutdown
with the overall shutdown of the timeline.
## Summary of changes
- Add a `Gate` to `Timeline`
- Take the gate as part of resident timeline guard: any code that holds
a guard over a timeline staying resident should also hold a guard over
the timeline's total lifetime.
- Take the gate from the wal removal task
- Respect Timeline::cancel in WAL send/recv code, so that we do not
block shutdown indefinitely.
- Add a test that deletes timelines with open pageserver+compute
connections, to check these get torn down as expected.
There is some risk to introducing gates: if there is code holding a gate
which does not properly respect a cancellation token, it can cause
shutdown hangs. The risk of this for safekeepers is lower in practice
than it is for other services, because in a healthy timeline deletion,
the compute is shutdown first, then the timeline is deleted on the
pageserver, and finally it is deleted on the safekeepers -- that makes
it much less likely that some protocol handler will still be running.
Closes: #8972Closes: #8974