## Problem
Currently it's unclear how much of the `initial_tenant_load` period is
in S3 objects, and therefore how impactful it is to make changes to
remote operations during startup.
## Summary of changes
- `Tenant::load` is refactored to load remote indices in parallel and to
wait for all these remote downloads to finish before it proceeds to
construct any `Timeline` objects.
- `pageserver_startup_duration_seconds` gets a new `phase` value of
`initial_tenant_load_remote` which counts the time from startup to when
the last tenant finishes loading remote content.
- `test_pageserver_restart` is extended to validate this phase. The
previous version of the test was relying on order of dict entries, which
stopped working when adding a phase, so this is refactored a bit.
- `test_pageserver_restart` used to explicitly create a branch, now it
uses the default initial_timeline. This avoids startup getting held up
waiting for logical sizes, when one of the branches is not in use.