## Problem
When refreshing cancellation data we resend the entire value again just
to reset the TTL, which causes unnecessary load in proxy, on network and
possibly on redis side.
## Summary of changes
* Switch from using SET with full value to using EXPIRE to reset TTL.
* Add a tiny delay between retries to prevent busy loop.
* Shorten CancelKeyOp variants: drop redundant suffix.
* Retry SET when EXPIRE failed.
Folke Behrens
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