* test(vitest): derive the Node SQLite test list from imports instead of a hand-kept list
The two SQLite list files held ~511 test paths that every PR adding a SQLite test had to edit,
which caused frequent merge conflicts. The vitest config now finds tests that directly import a
SQLite module or harness when it loads, using the classifier the boundary test already had, with
a modification-time cache so unchanged files skip parsing. The 42 tests that reach SQLite only
through a shared helper or a dynamic import stay listed in the Node runtime list.
* test(vitest): skip unused SQLite derivation and reject malformed cache entries
* test(vitest): use typed test convention for cache contract
