* fix(relay): bound control RTT samples per ping and per flush window
An authenticated host chose how many round-trip samples a cell recorded: every
pong carrying a recent plausible `t` was forwarded to the process-wide window,
which grew unbounded until the 30s flush copied and sorted it for percentiles.
Time a pong only when it echoes the `t` of the ping still outstanding on that
session, so a flood yields at most one sample per ping the cell actually sent.
A pong that lost the race to the next ping is dropped for timing but still
counts as proof of life for the silence watchdog. Bound the process-wide window
with a 1024-sample reservoir (Algorithm R) so the percentiles stay unbiased,
keep `controlRttSamplesDelta` meaning round trips observed, and publish
`controlRttSamplesDroppedDelta` for the ones the reservoir did not keep.
Replace the leak guard's blanket `"credential":` string rewrite with an exact,
path-scoped rename of the two schema keys that spell a policed word, and make
the guard case-insensitive now that nothing legitimate trips it.
Follow-up to #19232.
* test(relay): prove the RTT reservoir samples the whole window