useFocusTrap started over whenever its onEscape changed, and callers pass
a new function on every render. Each start moved the focus back to the
opener and then to the dialog's first element, so a field lost the focus
whenever the page behind rendered again: every 30 seconds through the
connection check, or when new mail updated the folder counts. The trap
now reads the latest onEscape from a ref and starts once per opening.
A view change in a dialog (a list giving way to a form) can remove the
element that had the focus. The restart used to pull it back by
accident; the trap now does that on purpose, and only when the focused
element was removed.