refactor: change arrow from a direct dependency to a peer dependency (#984)

BREAKING CHANGE: users will now need to npm install `apache-arrow` and
`@apache-arrow/ts` themselves.

node/package.json

@@ -61,11 +61,13 @@
     "uuid": "^9.0.0"
   },
   "dependencies": {
-    "@apache-arrow/ts": "^14.0.2",
     "@neon-rs/load": "^0.0.74",
-    "apache-arrow": "^14.0.2",
     "axios": "^1.4.0"
   },
+  "peerDependencies": {
+    "@apache-arrow/ts": "^14.0.2",
+    "apache-arrow": "^14.0.2"
+  },
   "os": [
     "darwin",
     "linux",

nodejs/package.json

@@ -62,7 +62,7 @@
     "lancedb-linux-arm64-gnu": "0.4.3",
     "lancedb-linux-x64-gnu": "0.4.3"
   },
-  "dependencies": {
+  "peerDependencies": {
     "apache-arrow": "^15.0.0"
   }
 }