Allow the control plane to override any Postgres connection options (#12262)

The previous behavior was for the compute to override control plane
options if there was a conflict. We want to change the behavior so that
the control plane has the absolute power on what is right. In the event
that we need a new option passed to the compute as soon as possible, we
can initially roll it out in the control plane, and then migrate the
option to EXTRA_OPTIONS within the compute later, for instance.

Signed-off-by: Tristan Partin <tristan@neon.tech>

compute_tools/src/compute.rs

@@ -408,7 +408,9 @@ impl ComputeNode {
         // N.B. keep it in sync with `ZENITH_OPTIONS` in `get_maintenance_client()`.
         const EXTRA_OPTIONS: &str = "-c role=cloud_admin -c default_transaction_read_only=off -c search_path=public -c statement_timeout=0";
         let options = match conn_conf.get_options() {
-            Some(options) => format!("{} {}", options, EXTRA_OPTIONS),
+            // Allow the control plane to override any options set by the
+            // compute
+            Some(options) => format!("{} {}", EXTRA_OPTIONS, options),
             None => EXTRA_OPTIONS.to_string(),
         };
         conn_conf.options(&options);