* wip: delete the SSH relay server and its build, assets and tests
* wip: drop main/relay plugin conformance; WSL reader lookup test
* fix: drop the emptied relay bench; prune baselines
* test: keep the native halves of tests that also covered the relay
* chore(ci): drop shard timings for the deleted relay server tests
* fix: keep the directory listing budget that darwin terminal names now import
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Co-authored-by: m4air <m4air@Mac.localdomain>